Success Looks Good On You. Now Let’s Take Care of The Part That Doesn’t...
Powerful relationship & life coaching for ambitious men and women over 40, and couples who refuse to settle for confusion, loneliness, emotional chaos, or “almost happy.”
Relationship Coaching based in Chicago – serving clients nationwide & worldwide
Success Looks Good On You. Now Let’s Take Care of The Part That Doesn’t...
Powerful relationship & life coaching for ambitious men and women over 40, and couples who refuse to settle for confusion, loneliness, emotional chaos, or “almost happy.”
Relationship Coaching based in Chicago – serving clients nationwide & worldwide
Let’s Be Honest - Something In Your Life Still Feels Off
You’ve built success. You’ve built stability. You’ve built a life that looks impressive on the outside. A successful career, responsibilities handled, goals accomplished – you are the strong one, the reliable one, the person everyone believes “has it all together” – but emotionally, something still isn’t working. Maybe you keep repeating the same relationship patterns, feel disconnected in your current relationship, struggle with communication, or quietly feel lonely even when you’re not alone. This is where powerful relationship coaching helps ambitious men and women over 40, and modern couples, finally find clarity, emotional confidence, connection, and relationships that truly work – in Chicago and worldwide.
- You attract emotionally unavailable partners
- Communication keeps turning into conflict
- Dating feels exhausting with zero results
- After 40, you’re rebuilding - but don’t know where to start
- Your relationship feels like roommates, not lovers
- You crave clarity, passion, emotional strength
If You’re Here, It’s Because Something Isn’t Working
If You’re Here, It’s Because Something Isn’t Working
- You attract emotionally unavailable partners
- Communication keeps turning into conflict
- Dating feels exhausting with zero results
- After 40, you’re rebuilding - but don’t know where to start
- Your relationship feels like roommates, not lovers
- You crave clarity, passion, emotional strength
Imagine If Your Love Life Finally Made Sense
💛 Calm confidence instead of emotional confusion
💛 A partner who truly understands you
💛 Communication that actually works
💛 Passion that lasts
💛 Boundaries that feel empowering
💛 A relationship that feels like home
You don’t need perfection. You need alignment. And alignment changes everything.
Ways We Can Work Together
Coaching for Ambitious Men Over 40
You’re successful, disciplined, respected – but your relationships don’t reflect the strength of the man you’ve become. This work helps men over 40 build emotional intelligence, clear communication, confidence, and deeper connection without losing masculine power. You’ll understand your patterns, stop repeating the same dynamics, and finally create relationships that feel stable, passionate, honest, and real.
Coaching for Ambitious Women Over 40
You’ve lived, loved, built, carried, and held everything together — but now it’s time to choose yourself. This work helps women over 40 reclaim confidence, identity, boundaries, feminine strength, and emotional clarity. You’ll release the patterns that kept you small, rebuild self-trust, and step into a life and relationships that feel empowered, grounded, passionate, and deeply yours.
Purpose-Driven Couples Coaching
You still care about each other — but something in the relationship no longer feels aligned. Maybe communication keeps turning into conflict, trust feels fragile, intimacy has faded, or distance has replaced closeness. Couples coaching helps you rebuild emotional safety, understand your patterns, restore connection, and create a relationship that feels supportive, honest, passionate, and worth choosing again.
Meet Iza Lewis - The Magnetic Commander of Love, Clarity & Purpose
Polish heart, global perspective, and a powerful, grounded presence — Iza Lewis helps ambitious men, confident women over 40, and committed couples turn emotional confusion into clarity, disconnection into genuine intimacy, and “almost happy” into deeply fulfilling, honest, emotionally intelligent relationships. With lived experience across cultures, sharp intuition, and compassionate strength, she guides people who are ready to stop repeating old patterns, rebuild trust in themselves and each other, communicate with confidence, and finally create a life — and love — that feels aligned, passionate, stable, and truly real.
Because Strong People Don’t Settle -
They Transform.
I run a successful IT company and people see me as strong and in control – except my personal life told a different story. I kept repeating the same relationship patterns, communication with my partner constantly turned into conflict, and I couldn’t understand why nothing I tried worked.
Working with Iza changed that. She didn’t sugarcoat anything – she helped me see my blind spots, understand my emotional reactions, and actually lead my relationship with clarity instead of ego. Today I communicate better, I don’t shut down, I don’t explode, and I feel calmer, stronger, and finally grounded emotionally. My relationship isn’t perfect – it’s real, healthy, and connected. Iza doesn’t just coach. She changes how you show up in your life.
— Michael, 45 — Business Owner, Chicago
I own a successful beauty clinic, I lead people, I’m decisive… but in my personal life I felt lost. After 40 I realized I didn’t recognize myself anymore I had the career, the responsibilities, but emotionally I was exhausted, overgiving, and constantly doubting myself. I couldn’t set boundaries, I tolerated too much, and I kept choosing relationships that drained me.
Working with Iza was a turning point. She helped me rebuild my self-worth, understand why I kept repeating the same emotional patterns, and reconnect with the woman I truly am — strong, feminine, confident, and calm. I communicate differently. I choose differently. I don’t abandon myself anymore. I finally feel grounded, respected, and deeply connected to my life again. This work changed everything.
— Anna, 47 — Entrepreneur, Chicago
We’re both successful in our careers, respected in what we do, and from the outside our life looked perfect. But after 15 years together, we felt like strangers living under one roof. Conversations turned into arguments, intimacy disappeared, and we slowly stopped choosing each other. We weren’t ready to give up… but we didn’t know how to fix it anymore.
Working with Iza changed the direction of our relationship. She helped us finally understand what we were really fighting about, not just what we were saying. She gave us tools to communicate honestly without attacking each other, to rebuild emotional safety, to bring trust back, and to reconnect instead of shutting down. Today we feel closer than we have in years. We laugh again. We talk. We choose each other — on purpose, every day. This work brought our relationship back to life.
— Mark & Olivia, Married 15 Years — Chicago
You Don’t Have to Do This Alone - Take the First Step
You don’t have to figure everything out on your own anymore. If you’re tired of guessing, repeating the same emotional patterns, or carrying everything in silence, this is your place to breathe, get clarity, and finally feel supported. This free resource will help you understand what’s really happening, why it keeps happening, and what you can start doing differently – with intelligence, strength, and truth.
Ready To Stop Surviving Your Relationships And Start Mastering Them?
If you’re tired of pretending you’re okay when you’re not… if you’re done repeating the same patterns, carrying everything in silence, or trying to fix your life with strength alone — this is your moment to choose differently. You deserve clarity. You deserve emotional stability. You deserve connection that feels honest, grounded, and real. You deserve to feel strong without being numb, open without losing yourself, and supported without feeling weak. If something inside you knows there’s more to your life, your relationships, and your confidence than what you’re living right now… listen to it. This is your invitation to stop surviving and start truly living.
Serving: Chicago • Chicagoland Area • Illinois • Nationwide • International Clients via Zoom
Relationship Coach Chicago • Men’s Relationship Coaching • Women Over 40 Coaching • Couples Coaching Chicago